Off to the Grandkids

On my way to grandchildren in Petaluma for the day, so brief one…..

Love is the answer…..no matter what Love yourself, Love the others, Love non matter what.

Trust will settle every problem now…because Trust brings a state of peace. Peace opens the heart to Love and the Mind to seeing things differently and Trust will encourage a healing response rather than a fearful reaction.

Forgivenesss offers everything I want because…….Returning to a state of giving rather than withholding invites opening the flow of life energy which heals and replenishes, fulfills and inspires. Forgiviness is the ability to continue fully living and giving our very best in all circumstances. When we give our very best, our lives work better and the world is blesses.

There is nothing to do……..The world seems to be about fixing and maintaining…rather than letting it undo what is not for the Highest Good and allowing the natural creation to unfold. There is a state of Being that comes from realizing who We Are and How Love creates.

Give yourself to Love and Love will give to you.

Loving you, Betty Lue

Important piece for relationships: You are responsible for your own happiness and inner peace.

Where we are upset (angry, hurt, afraid, judgmental.), our past wounds (unhealed stuff) has been triggered. This shows us where we have work to do.

The usual relationship habit is to try to “fix” the other person, to get them to change or stop saying or doing what has upset us. This makes the other feel “wrong” and guilty and hurt and angry and inadequate. This only exaggerates the problem. It is ineffective over the long term.

The real work is to heal our own woundedness, to clear our own buttons and heal our history and forgive allowing anything or anyone to hurt us. When this is done, we can be effective, helpful and kind in our relationships.

This is a big job. Cannot be done overnight and must be done after we have taken good care of ourselves mentally, physically, and spiritually. Taking impeccable care of ourselves is essential to good relationships.

Betty Lue

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