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Friday, July 6, 2012

Whatever You Want

Loving Reminder for Friday, July 6, 2012

Friday, July 6, 2012

Whatever You Want

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Whatever You Want

Celebrating what works! Betty Lue

July 6, 2012

Whatever You Want! See it! And Believe it! Enjoy it! and Give it!

To have is to give and receive what you have given! This is backwards for the mind that wants to get everything they want to have. The ego still believes that it needs to bargain, manipulate, control or persuade to get its needs met. The Spiritual Self knows that is has everything it needs and seeks to share, teach and give what it has.

What will it take for us to stop blaming, criticizing and trying to change anyone? When will we understand we can only change ourselves with forgiveness and choice? How do we invite the needy demanding part of ourselves to trust and choose for share? When will our inner child realize that all change, transformation and healing begins within?

In our relationships with others, we have learned to seek approval and reward. In relationships at home and work, we have been taught to avoid mistakes, disapproval and punishment. In relationship with ourselves, we will discover our thoughts, words and behavior make the difference. Life continually shows us what works and doesn’t work.

Love Works. Fear does not work. Trust works. Suspicion does not Work. Forgiveness works. Judgment does not work. Peace works. Conflict does not work. Clarity works. Confusion does not work. Communication works. Withholding does not work. Happiness works. Sadness and depression do not work. Willingness works. Stubbornness does not work. Commitment works. Giving up does not work.

Experiment and explore. Practice and discover. Observe and notice. Clarify and communicate.

You will find very simple and effective life-changing principles that are natural when we stop interfering. When we do not allow natural consequences to teach ourselves and our children, life seems complex/ When we watch the simple truth occur reaping what we sow and getting what we give, we learn. It is always up to the most conscious or awake person to notice and make the choice to change.

You are the conscious one. You are the willing one. You are the chooser. So choose now for what works.

Celebrating what works! Betty Lue

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