Relationships Awaken Us to Heal Our Selves!

Relationships Remind Us to Return to Love!

Whether we know it or not, every relationship can be helpful and healing. Whether we realize it or not, we have the relationships we need to learn about ourselves. Whether we can see it or not, all upsets are past similar that are calling to be healed. Even when we do not understand, we keep repeating past wounds until we heal ourselves.

Each relationship we have teaches us and reminds us. Every encounter, even the brief ones show us a piece of ourselves. Every pet, plant and person is a gift of opportunity to let go, forgive and love ourselves. Each interaction can be used to heal or hurt, forgive or judge, love or fear.

Our primary relationship is always with learning to love ourselves. When we remember to love, trust, respect and appreciate the One We are, others are easy to Love. Every unloving thought, word or action is always a call for Love. When we forsake another, we have forsaken ourselves.

We are here to respond to every call for Love with Love. When we are empty and forgetting to Love ourselves, we cannot respond with Love. When we cannot respond to the tears and fears of another, we may withdraw or get angry with them. When we cannot or will not love another, we feel guilty and often attack or avoid or abandon.

We will all learn to always and only respond with Love to all calls for Love. Sometimes this Love is given directly and immediately with kindness and listening. Sometimes, we must give quiet space and allow the other to calm themselves with loving thoughts. Sometimes, we simple sit in silence and wait for the opening to love.

Each response to love is unique to the individual situation. When we feel our own need for love, we can step aside to get healing and clarity within. When we sit with our own thoughts and feelings, listening and writing is very helpful. The real reason I am upset is: or The Real Reason I feel unloved is:

Learn to sit quietly and write down to every response or reaction you hold in mind. The objective is to clear it all by writing everything down no matter how crazy or irrational. The mind creates the same experience it holds in mind, until we are clear of reasons and excuses. Our work is to Clear Everything Unlike Love and learn to always return to Love.

Relationships are not to GET Love. All relationships are for learning to GIVE Love. When we do not Love ourselves, we feel needy to GET Love. When we Love ourselves, we feel happy to GIVE Love.

Life is for GIVING! You are the GIFT. When you GIVE the Love within You, You Realize the Gift of Love You Are.

The Gift You Are

You are the gift. In your healing, I am healed. In your smiling, I find joy. In your learning, I am filled with wisdom. In your free expressions, I am empowered. In your abundance, I too prosper. In your spontaneity, I am set free. In your joy, I know heaven.

And so it is that you give your Self to me And I receive you with love and gratitude. I am the gift I give to You And I fully receive the gift I freely give.

As I know You, I know my Self. As I give to you, I receive all good. As I support you, I am supported by the Universe. As I honor and respect you, I experience gratitude in all my being. As I love you, I am loving all of God's creation.

I know you and believe in you. I honor, respect and support you in being. In you and me is all the Universe. We are gifts to one another.

- Betty Lue 1983

Blessings of Love Always, Betty Lue

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