What Controls or Guides You?

Are You Controlled or Guided?

Are you listening to others or to yourself? Are you controlled by addictions or attachments? Are you trying to please or fix or get approval? Who or what seems to make the decisions for you?

Do you get opinions and feedback from others? Are you trusting someone else more than you? Do you listen and get confused? Do you feel pushed, and demanded by others?

Sometimes we need to learn to listen to our own voice. Sometimes we get confused and conflicted by others. Sometimes we become dependent on parents and partners. Sometimes we don’t know how to trust ourselves.

What controls you? What do you fear most? What is the condition you must always consider? Addictions and attachments often become the master of our choices.

Does money or fear of lack of security control you? Do your addictions to smoking, drugs, tv shows or fears run your life? Are you attached to what will happen or who will care if you make the “wrong” choice? Do you feel controlled by limiting habits or past choices?

Are you free to make your own choices? Do you inquire within to ascertain what is best for you? Are you open and willing to seek what is truly right for you? Are you guided by your purpose, principles and process?

People may offer suggestions, advice or guidance. You may listen to others opinions. You may admire others’ life choices. Your question should always be: “What Works for You?” So listen to what guides and provides for your life.

Turn your life over to what you trust. Give your choices to what is good for you? Notice what you allow to distract, delay and detour you. Be aware of what inspires and sustains your consciousness and life energy.

You have the right and responsibility to choose what guides and provides for your life. You can choose to listen within to what is in your own heart and mine. What has heart and meaning for you? Are you living true to your authentic self?

Find your own path of health, happiness, integrity and fulfillment. Clarify your own value to see what are your honest priorities and guides. Trusting your exploration to learn from your choices.

Why am I here?

What is my unique contribution?

What is my Primary Critical Success Factor? (The attribute/skill most contributing to success.)

What is my Primary Limiting Factor? (The attribute or skill that most holds me back.)

Values Clarification

____ Achievement ____ Beauty ____ Community ____ Control ____ Cooperation ____ Creativity ____ Education ____ Enjoyment ____ Environment ____ Excellence ____ Faith ____ Family ____ Fitness/Exercise ____ Freedom ____ Fulfillment ____ Happiness ____ Harmony ____ Health/Healing ____ Independence ____ Knowledge ____ Life Purpose ____ Loving ____ Marriage ____ Mastery ____ Money ____ Partnership ____ Pleasure ____ Recognition ____ Recreation ____ Security ____ Self-Image ____ Service ____ Spirituality ____ Travel ____ Truth/Honesty ____ Wealth

Virtue = defining core values and not compromising on them. Integrity = how strongly and clearly you adhere to your values. Zero-Based Thinking (evaluating the relative value of any object, activity, relationship): “Knowing what I know now, would I begin / do / acquire this now?

Loving you, Betty Lue

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