Is It Love?

How Do You Love?

How do you show you love someone? How do you show you care? What are the ways you express your love? Touch?, words?, gifts?, time?, service? How do you demonstrate you really feel for others?

Is it Love or need? Is it Love or worry? Is it Love or lust? Are you desiring to give Love or get Love?

Learned personality-based Love is often based on fears, restriction, specialness and suspicion. When we are doubting or jealous, we are afraid of losing. When we are judging and criticizing, we are desiring to fix and change. When parents and partners are complaining and not appreciating, they are not loving.

Love is kind and patient. Love demonstrates and teaches. Love shows the way. Love trusts and allows.

Love is sharing and caring. Love listens and is present. Love believes and gives encouragement. Love seeks only to please and give joy.

Love is not abrasive or mean. Love forgives and forgets. Love is gentle and allowing. Love heals and seeks the highest and best.

Love is honest and trustworthy. Love receives and gives equally. Love is responsible and able to respond. Love commits to what is best for both.

Love joins with others' happiness. Love is peaceful and does not complain. Love endures during struggles and strife. Love remembers only Love.

When we fall into the drama and trauma, we have forgotten to Love. When we let ourselves judge and compare, we have become a critic. When we hear ourselves gossip and complain, we have separated from Love. When we talk about past mistakes. we have withheld forgiveness and Love.

Seek only to Love, Betty Lue

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