Be Truly Helpful

Help Others Help Themselves!

When we are healed, we are not healed alone. When we help another, we are helping ourselves. What we do for ourselves, we do for others. What we do for others, we are doing for ourselves.

This universe shows us how to heal. We are here to heal all of us. When we live with healing in mind, we experience inner peace. When we share our peace of mind, we demonstrate healing.

Life experience shows us what is helpful. We observe the results of the help we offer. We notice what works and what doesn’t work. We choose to do what is truly helpful and all benefit.

Help is not helpful, if it creates fear or resistance. Help is not helpful, if it disables or weakens the other. Help is not helpful, if we sacrifice and weaken ourselves. Help is helpful, if it empowers and creates no judgmental limits.

A rule of thumb: Wait until you are asked or invited to help.Create a confidential and private space or help anonymously.Be clear about the time involved. (Set limits).Ask specifically what is needed.Listen within and listen tor the other to see what is best.Give only what is asked for and open to be received.Share what feels positive, encouraging and reassuring.Ask if there is anything else that is wanted or needed.Listen to and receive your own counsel and guidance.Do not share, remind or ask about what you have given.Be grateful for the opportunity to be of help.Do not give, if there is no appreciation or it makes things worse.There must be conscious appreciation to be of value.Remember what is helpful to you may or may not be helpful to another. What you give is always a gift to yourself. To be helpful you must demonstrate your faith and confidence and trust in the other. Treat and talk with others as you want to be treated and talked with.

True helpfulness is equal, honest and responsible. True helpfulness is respectful and kind. True helpfulness is direct, specific and without expectation. Seek only to be truly helpful for the highest and best outcome.

Be truly helpful by giving what you would want to receive.

Reminding you with Love, Betty Lue

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